Archive for October, 2008

Remembering Mother on Her Birthday

In a few days, my mother will be 84 years old. When she turned 80, we had a big birthday party for her. My siblings and I rented a hall and a number of people dropped in for an informal time of eating, visiting and taking pictures. We put together a binder of decorative paper and had all the guests write a memory or note about mom and then the photos and cards were included. It’s a great keepsake and something that can be handed down for generations.

A big hit at the party was the Family Legacy book that mom has been writing. For five years, on the anniversary of what would have been my dad’s birthday, our family got together for dinner and mom gave us a few more pages to add to the book. Including text and pictures scanned into the computer, this family history details the time from my father’s birth, through their courting and marriage days. Although she no longer updates the book, we each have this cherished keepsake in our homes.

Even though mom is now almost 84, she continues to learn and can usually be found in front of her computer. These days she has a couple of blogs, sometimes sells on eBay, and is in the process of writing an ebook. Mom is a real inspiration to me to continue learning and trying new things. I only hope that at her age, I can be half the woman she is.

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10 2008

Small Town Living in Southern Ontario

Not everyone wants to live in a busy city like Toronto. During rush hour, it’s a madhouse. Everyone is in a major hurry and the traffic is crazy.

As a result, a lot of people live in the suburbs and commute. So the highways going into Toronto from the north and the east especially are very busy. Where you settle depends on whether you will be working in Toronto or not. If you are, pick an area not too far from your job.

For example: my sister works at 401 and the Don Valley and lives east in Bowmanville. During non-rush hour, it takes her about an hour to get there driving all highway. My brother works right downtown and lives north in Keswick (which is a nice little town near the water) and it takes him about an hour into town by highway as well. During rush hour (which in reality is about two or three hours both morning and evening) or bad weather, that time could be doubled.

There are a lot of nice little towns north and east of the city, but they are becoming more crowded since they are commuting distance and many to the north are a lot more expensive than they ever were before. Keswick is still affordable, but is getting busier. There is a beautiful little town called Erin that we drove through last week (not far from Orangeville). Small and very nice – no idea how much the housing is though.

We ended up moving west, to Cambridge. That’s between Guelph and Kitchener. Small town feel, but business is increasing here. Many of our neighbours work in Mississauga and it’s less than a one hour drive on a good day. As a native Torontonian I wasn’t sure I would settle in, but so far I love it. It’s so nice to get downtown in ten minutes and to have people actually smile and greet you when they pass.

Woodstock, just west of us, is another nice little small town with a booming economy thanks to their new Toyota plant. There are also quiet little towns out Niagara way, like St. Catharines. The housing there is very reasonable, but not as many jobs. Like I said, it depends how close you need to be to Toronto if you work there and which end of the city you want to be near. And as in most cities, big or small, some areas are better than others.

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10 2008

Thanksgiving In Ontario Canada

This past long weekend was Thanksgiving in Canada. Most stores and businesses were closed Monday as we Canadians enjoyed a warm and colourful weekend. Some of our family live four hours north of Toronto, in a place called North Bay. So my husband and I battled the cottage country traffic and went for a visit. Whenever the weather is warm, hundreds of people head north to visit their cottages, so driving can be unbelievably slow.

We feasted on a Thanksgiving meal of turkey with dressing, mashed potatoes and gravy, sweet potatoes, squash, and salad. Dessert was pumpkin pie with whipped cream. In our family, everyone brings a small part of the meal, so the preparation isn’t too much for any one person.

After the meal, we headed down to the nearby lake and went for a relaxing ride on my brother-in-law’s houseboat. He built it himself and loves to take visitors out on the water.

On the drive back to Southern Ontario, I managed to take a couple of pictures of the autumn leaves. Even though these pictures don’t capture the full beauty of the changing season, you can see a little of the awesome scenery. Is it any wonder that taking a country drive just to look at the fall colours is so popular here?

                       

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10 2008